It isn't considered normal where I come from, either. Monogamy is the norm. The people of Skifander merely think that norms are for the boring.

[I mean, the less clothing you're wearing, the more decent you're considered. It's a pretty... special place.

AND HE'S NOT SHY HE JUST

EXPLAINING ROMANCE IS

HARD

it's hard and no one understands]

'Just'? I shudder to think of what that implies about your cephalopods.